The age-old question of “having it all.” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around a lot these days, and it seems like everyone has a different idea of what it means. Some people think it’s having a high-powered career, a loving family, and a hefty bank account. Others think it’s having the time and freedom to travel the world and pursue their passions. And still, others think it’s simply being happy and content with their life.

As for me, well, I have a hard time taking the concept of “having it all” seriously. I mean, come on, what does that even mean? Does it mean you have every single thing you’ve ever wanted in life? Does it mean you’re immune to stress, anxiety, and disappointment? Does it mean you never have a bad hair day?

Okay, okay, I’m being facetious. But the truth is, the idea of “having it all” can be a bit overwhelming. It sets up an impossible standard, one that most of us can never truly achieve. Sure, you might have a great job, a loving partner, and a beautiful home, but there will always be something else you want – a bigger salary, a closer relationship with your family, a trip to Bali.

So, is “having it all” attainable? Well, it depends on how you define it. If you believe that it means having every single thing you’ve ever wanted, then no, it’s not attainable. But if you define it as finding a sense of balance and contentment in your life, then absolutely it is.

Personally, I think the key to “having it all” (or at least, feeling like you do) is to prioritize what’s truly important to you. Maybe that means putting your career on hold to focus on raising your kids. Maybe it means taking a lower-paying job so you have more time to pursue your hobbies. Maybe it means saying no to certain commitments so you can have more time for self-care.

At the end of the day, we all have to make choices about what we want in life. We can’t have everything, but we can certainly strive for the things that matter most to us. And hey, if you’re having a bad hair day? Sometimes, that’s just how it goes. Even if you “have it all.”